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Building Inner Strength for Dating
Published: 6 October 2026Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia: 5 likes
Cold approach can be a cracking tool, especially when you're feeling chuffed with yourself.
So, you got her number, and it feels like this could really go somewhere. She seems to have it all together.
A few dates in, though, she might start to notice if things don't quite add up. When the initial excitement fades, what's left might be someone who has everything but still feels a bit empty or insecure, without much depth.
Remember, you're a catch not just because of your money, looks, or possessions. There are many people with those things, not just you.
So, she has a couple of choices:
1. Stay for the benefits.
2. Move on.
Cold approach is a valuable skill, though I personally focused on these 7 areas instead:
- A strong self-image
- Being open to spontaneity
- Having a clear purpose
- Crystal clarity in your thoughts
- Self-understanding
- Control over your desires
- Plenty of hobbies
You'll see things shift. Don't forget, while you have options, so does she, and often more than you might realise.
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